i have a new crush!super crush!ahaha.he's 6 years older than me, i think. i'm actually looking for such man, older than me, a matured one.but not too old.DOM?wag naman.ahaha.but here's the thing, he's taken.

he got me singing, "akin ka na lang" and "he's already taken" (the day you said goodnight revised). hahaha. i don't personally know him, but there's a kilig factor e. i wanted to be close to him. even just as a friend.

he's cute, really. but above all, he impressed me. i've read his blog and he writes very well. he got 3 entries, enough to impress me. i found him very smart and witty. that's my kind of guy. wahehe. and i think he's nice. it seemed everybody likes him.

i really like him. i think this is a matured crush thingy one, i mean something that's not like in high school. i admire him the most amongst the MEN out there. i trust my instinct. i know he's nice, he is special. he's not like any other guy.

we'll have a chat someday. we'll be friends someday.

i really like his name, too, by the way, it's *****E. ahehe. secret muna.

I am not used to put someone’s face into shame, but this girl has pushed me beyond my patience! I’ve given her time, more than enough time, but it turned out nothing. Don’t push me further. You won’t like it. I’m still giving her time, I give chance.

Just like what other said, THIS IS NOT ABOUT THE MONEY! I have gone through experiences that some buyers placed an order and just cancelled it. I have gone through some buyers who have been gone with the wind after placing an order. And I have gone through some buyers who have failed to pay their orders on the promised date. But I don’t label them as BOGUS. I understand them, I completely understand them. They have their reason, at least not to cause any harm to anybody.

Well, this girl I’m talking about has really UPSET me, very disappointing. Here’s what happened:

She ordered and reserved Asian clothes, shoes and bags with the total amount of P 12,250. I doubted her but I told myself and my business partner/friend that we’ll just see. She promised to pay on December 19, 2008. I’ve been very skeptic because I don’t think she’s a wholesaler nor resell her orders from me, but she ordered every color available in each design desired. She didn’t even ask for discount which makes me think that she’s not a wholesaler or whatsoever. She’s using someone else’s multiply account at that time.

December 18 came, she sent me a personal message, she told me that she won’t be able to pay on December 19 (the date that she ought to pay) because she told me that she’s out of the country. I’m not surprised; I’m expecting her excuse. I’ve read that message thru an email notification from multiply. When I’m about to reply to her message, I went to that that message’s page and surprisingly, she’d erased the message. So I just sent her a personal message, I’ve asked her if she still wanted to continue her orders and if she still be paying for it. She replied to my message (as new personal message, you know what I mean) and she told me she’ll be back at January 2, 2009, she’ll pay by then. Again, I just read that message thru my e-mail, because she deleted a PM for the second time. I just said ok. I just let it passed though I got pissed. What’s wrong with her?!Why is she doing that?!

The next message I got from her is telling me that she made an account already, her own multiply account. I went to that message and as expected, she erased it. I didn’t bother to check her multiply at that time. I just felt it was a waste of time. The next next day, I visited her account. And to my surprise, SHE COPIED MY TERMS AND CONDITION!!!
From asterisks ( * ) to hearts ( ♥ ) to dashes ( - ), take note! What the heck?! It had pissed me off! Grrrr. Of course she edited my contact details, payment information and name. And now she’s selling?! That moment, right away, I told my business partner/friend that I’m sick and tired of her, and I’m getting scared of what she’ll do next. I really don’t know what to do, I don’t know if she’s a bad person or “just like that”. Let me say that again, maybe she’s “just like that”. The next day, I happened to have the guts to ask her what’s wrong with her, why would she do that. She replied. She said she just asked somebody to do that terms and conditions for her. She’ll just remove it. But she still hasn’t. Such a liar. But I’m still giving her the benefit of the doubt. I just want her to tell me that “please cancel my order” and get this DONE. I’m really sick and tired of her.

January 2, 2009, I’ve texted her asking for her payment. I even told her that I’m giving her until today ONLY. She still wants to persist her orders but can’t pay today. I’m giving her until tomorrow. ONLY TOMORROW. Shot me if I’ll give her another chance if she failed to pay tomorrow.

"Please dear, I don’t care about your orders anymore, just cancel it and let’s just get this done if you won’t pay for it. Please let’s not waste each other’s time."

Honestly, I'm not blogging this about as a seller, but as ME, mai. For me, she is such a disappointment.